In today’s world, where technology often disconnects us from our cyclical nature, the significance of women gathering during their menstrual cycles—particularly on the dark moon—holds deep potential for healing and awakenign. Historically, menstruation has been a time of deep connection, where women would come together to honor their cycles, share wisdom, and strengthen their community bonds.
Yet, there is a message to hibernate at this time, which could be perceived to disconnect and isolate.
Our next live circle is exploring this topic more deeply and recieving practices to help tune into our cyclical nature. There are two timings available to welcome different timezones.
A Historical Perspective
Throughout history, many cultures viewed menstruation as a sacred time, a period when women were believed to possess heightened intuition and spiritual power. In ancient tribes, women would gather in secluded spaces where they could bleed freely, releasing their blood to the earth, and supporting one another through stories and shared experiences.
In some Indigenous cultures, women retreated to special areas during their menstrual cycles, forming a sisterhood that empowered them to connect with their ancestors and the natural world. The notion that menstruation equates to isolation is a modern misconception; rather, it can be a time for deep connection and rejuvenation.
But, it's not to say any gathering with just anyone with nourish you.
The Modern Disconnect
In our current environment, we face constant distractions from technology—Hormonal contraception, blue light, screen time, and linear work hours can disrupt our natural rhythms. This disconnection often leads to feelings of isolation, particularly during menstruation. Yet, what many women truly crave during their bleed time is connection with others who honor this sacred time.
Reclaiming Connection in Community
To reclaim this sense of community, women can take deliberate steps to create spaces that honor their menstrual cycles:
1. Establishing Red Tent Gatherings: Whether through physical or virtual spaces, forming small circles or larger gatherings can provide women the opportunity to share stories, nourish each other, and engage in rituals that honor their cycles.
2. Monthly Rituals: Align gatherings with the new or dark moon, focusing on honoring menstrual cycles through shared meals, storytelling, and reflection.
3. Collective Practices: Engage in guided meditations or group reflections during these times to deepen the connection to cyclical living.
4. Nature Connection: Host outdoor gatherings to connect with the earth, encourage free bleeding, and emphasize nourishing foods that support hormonal health.
5. Educating and Empowering: Organize workshops on menstrual health and the significance of cyclical living.
Manifesting the Red Tent
While the dream of establishing a red tent gathering may feel distant, it’s important to continue envisioning and creating this space. Engage in visioning practices or group meditations, inviting others to contribute ideas and resources toward manifesting this sacred space.
Through your current practices of tuning into resonant women, listening to meditations, and honoring your cycle, you’re already building the foundation for a thriving community.
In reclaiming the menstrual cycle as a powerful tool for understanding the body and connecting with one another, we transform what once felt isolating into a celebration of womanhood, strength, and community. Together, we can honor our cycles, share our wisdom, and create the nurturing spaces that support our growth and connection.
Love,
Danielle (Don't forget to RSVP to Sunday's event)
Further Reading
- Diamant, Anita. *The Red Tent.* Random House, 1997.
- Walker, Barbara G. *The Women’s Encyclopedia of Myths and Secrets.* Harper & Row, 1983.
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